Many couples argue about who does the dishes or who takes out the trash. Yet, even when these visible tasks are split evenly, one partner often feels more exhausted and overwhelmed than the other....
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Are men less attracted to intelligent women?
2015 study: men are slightly less attracted to intelligent women, despite what they say2021 study: girlfriend success barely dents male self-esteem2022-2023 study: women’s higher status helps,...
Understanding the brain helps love last, says neurobiologist Lucy Vincent
Lucy Vincent is a neurobiologist with a rich, eclectic career in research, known for her popular science books on the plasticity of the brain and the biology of human attachment. Her newest book, Le...
Beyond fairy-tale love: reclaiming realistic expectations in relationships
Why the end of the Disney glow can be the beginning of something deeper. The Myth We All Inherited From childhood on, many of us soaked in the same storyline: love should feel magical - non-stop...
Love your enemies: a buddhist guide to defeating anger, ego, and self-loathing
In their collaborative work Love Your Enemies: How to Break the Anger Habit & Be a Whole Lot Happier, Robert Thurman and Sharon Salzberg delve into the profound concept of "enemies," both...
We create a false self in early life to meet external expectations and cope with childhood experiences – James Hollis
James Hollis explores the psychological and spiritual upheaval of midlife as a necessary and meaningful rite of passage. Drawing from Jungian concepts, he introduces the idea of the "provisional...
Childhood trauma linked to smaller hippocampus after romantic breakups
Heartbreak is universally painful, but for individuals who experienced maltreatment as children, the end of a romantic relationship may leave a physical mark on the brain. A new study published in...
The Peak-End Rule explains why we judge relationships by their most intense moments and how they end
We often believe that we judge our relationships based on a fair average of every day we spent together. Psychology suggests otherwise. According to the peak-end rule, our memory ignores the...
The scarcity principle explains why we chase unavailable partners and how an abundance mindset builds real love
Feeling drawn to partners who are distant or hard to get is a common relationship struggle. A psychological concept called the scarcity principle explains why this happens. It suggests that we often...
The five-second pause: A simple strategy to prevent relationship conflicts
Recent psychological research demonstrates that taking just a five-second pause during tense moments in a relationship can significantly reduce aggression and prevent minor disagreements from...
Four key factors for sustaining a lifelong relationship
Four essential elements for maintaining a long-term romantic relationship: Shared values and mutual respect for a strong foundation Emotional support and open communication help partners navigate...
Small inequalities in relationships may strengthen bonds, but large ones cause harm
How dating someone perceived as being "out of one's league" can impact relationships. While minor disparities between partners, such as intelligence or social status, can enhance admiration and love...
The five stages of long-term relationships and how to navigate them
The article explains the five key phases in romantic relationships, starting from the initial attraction and infatuation to building deeper commitment. Each phase presents distinct challenges and...
Hugs alleviate pain, anxiety, and depression
Touch interventions show consistent health benefits A large-scale systematic review and meta-analysis of 137 studies reveals that touch interventions, such as massages or skin-to-skin contact, offer...
Being happy as a single is possible depending on your attachment style
Happiness in long-term singlehood is significantly influenced by an individual's attachment style. Those with secure attachment are more likely to experience contentment while being single, whereas...