We often think of great leaders as great talkers. We imagine them giving rousing speeches, setting a clear vision, and having an answer for everything. But a massive review of scientific research...
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The Pratfall Effect: why making mistakes can make you more likable
Perfection is often overrated. While we strive to be flawless in job interviews or first dates, psychology suggests that being too perfect can actually push people away. A small blunder, like...
Invisible load in relationships: 3 signs you carry too much
Many couples argue about who does the dishes or who takes out the trash. Yet, even when these visible tasks are split evenly, one partner often feels more exhausted and overwhelmed than the other....
Mike Horn survival adventures
Mike Horn and the spirit of exploration Mike Horn is one of the few modern explorers who still embodies the raw, fearless spirit of adventure. His journeys, from walking around the equator and the...
Personal attacks are the lowest form of debate: attack the argument, not the person
Why Schopenhauer’s “last resort” ruins thinking and how to debate without it. When conversations get tense, the easiest move is also the worst one: drop the issue and go after the person. The Latin...
4 common gaslighting phrases and what to say instead
When a conversation becomes tense, it is easy to fall back on defensive phrases without realizing the harm they cause. People can sometimes use common expressions that subtly dismiss another...
Smarter people tend to be more generous and choose the common good
Research across psychology and economics suggests that higher cognitive ability, the mental skills used to learn, reason, and solve problems, often goes with more generous and prosocial choices....
Psychologist: to calm a fight, restate what they said and name the feeling
When people argue, both sides mostly want to feel heard. A simple tool can lower tension fast, even when you still disagree. It is called empathic paraphrasing. You repeat the other person’s key...
To win a developer’s heart, be clear, respect focus, and share simple fun
In some dating spaces, many women look for partners in tech because they see good job prospects and a clear path to long term stability. This guide explains what matters most when you speak with a...
Gen Z workers face higher termination rates due to lack of professionalism
Gen Z workers face higher termination rates due to unmet workplace expectations Many Gen Z graduates are being fired at higher rates than other generations, largely due to a mismatch between their...
Five simple brain habits can help leaders unlearn bias and lower conflict
Leaders often carry unconscious bias, meaning fast, automatic judgments about people that operate outside awareness. The Inc. piece distills five practical habits that use neuroplasticity, the...
Bilingual brains show structural changes, and multilingual teams may innovate more
Research in brain imaging links bilingual experience to changes in brain structure. Studies using MRI report denser grey matter in regions that help with language, concepts, and abstract thinking....
Best gaming console
Some quick notes about the best gaming console in 2024. Playstation 5 (PS5) Xbox Nintendo Switch and Wii, but old gen Next gen consoles not before 2028, so go with PS5 or your choice now. Play with...
Maximizing downtime: productive alternatives to watching TV
The article emphasizes shifting from passive TV watching to activities that enrich your personal or professional life. It suggests dedicating time to learning new skills, developing hobbies, or...
Attractive individuals earn higher wages
Research shows that physical attractiveness positively influences earnings, as good-looking individuals are often seen as more competent and confident. This perception leads to higher salaries,...